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Toda,y what I have for you is a widely discussed topic; Squirting and Creaming/Cumming. Oh and by the way at the end of this post will be a poll. Ladies you have to choose if you are a squirter or a creamer, and guys, you have to choose which one you like between the two. Don’t worry your answers won’t be displayed, it will just be like a Twitter poll *winks.

So back to the post, the conversation on squirting and creaming inspired me to write this post so sit back relax and read.

Squirting, Cumming /Creaming

Squirting: this is the ejection of fluid from the urethra (it shouldn’t be confused for urine) for more information on squiring; refer to the former post on Squirting.

Creaming/Cumming: before I start, I want to say that cumming is also the same thing as creaming. Creaming/cumming happens when a woman experiences an orgasm, but not all women can cream. This doesn’t mean they can’t experience an orgasm; it just means some women ejaculate when they have an orgasm while some don’t.

Creaming/Cumming is the release of white and thickish fluid from the female prostate aka the g-spot.

People often mistake squirting as ejaculation, they are not the same. Cumming and orgasm, too, are not the same, they might almost be the same, but they are not the same. Orgasm is the activity that brings about cumming, but cumming doesn’t take place every time an orgasm occurs.

Do you get it now? Good.

To get the whole concept of cumming/creaming/ejaculation, let’s talk about orgasm for you guys to get the full picture.

Orgasm is the climax of sexual pleasure. You know when you reach a certain level during sex or hand to gland combat (masturbation) that you can’t hold in your excitement, and you let go. You will feel a wave rush over your entire body, and it will feel nice; that is what an orgasm is.

For women, stimulating the clitoris is one of the fastest ways to have an orgasm, so men take note of this and look out for the clitoris when you want your female partner to have an orgasm. Give it extra love, please; it is one of the most important things during sexual activity. You can use your hand, your tongue or even toys; give your partner a full experience. The clitoris is sensitive, and it feels good when it is being touched or caressed.

Now that you have that down let’s talk about Creaming/Cumming/Ejaculation.

Firstly before you cream or even cum, an orgasm has to occur, which is for both men and women. Ejaculation also happens for men and women but men have an easier time ejaculating than women. In some women, a whitish fluid would be released from their vagina. It is odourless, and it doesn’t stain.

So basically squirting isn’t the opposite of cumming, a woman that squirts can also cream and vice versa. The key thing you should know is that some women can squirt before they reach orgasm and then ejaculate when they reach orgasm, while some women can squirt and not ejaculate when they have an orgasm.

Oh and before we end today’s session, when your female partner squirts, do not stop and assume she is having an orgasm, she isn’t. Continue and make sure she gets an orgasm. Here are signs she is having an orgasm;

  • Clenching of toes/toes curling
  • Face making (cum face)
  • Arching of back
  • Sudden stillness

There you go, now you know the difference between squirting and cumming. I trust everyone has learned a thing or two today.  Remember to ask for consent and have fun.

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